I love my compressors and other tools like eq to be visual. I find myself using NastyVCS a lot. Not having visuals is a distraction, as I'm having to think more about how much I need to tweak.
It depends on what I'm trying to achieve. If I'm not doing anything obscenely crazy I can put something out in a few hours (not counting mastering and other such things.) If I'm doing symphonic metal stuff with 20+ tracks of orchestra alone it can take me months if I'm in the middle of a dry spell o...
If I find a preset that fits what I'm trying to achieve, I use the preset. I'm a musician first, sound designer second. If I already have the sound I need without fiddling around I see no reason to waste time tweaking when I could be writing actual music. It's only cheating if you have someone else ...
Tuomas Holopainen is probably my biggest inspiration at the moment. Both with Nightwish and his solo work.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ICBbTKy6sxE